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Let me start
by telling you all that I have nothing (pretty much) against most
girls. Don't get me wrong, some girls can get really annoying,
but that's not only because they're girls (guys can be just as
annoying). This is also not to say that I myself can't be
annoying at times. I'm sure people think I am quite often. However,
the decisiveness of the female is an indisputable certainty that
occurs in 99 out of 100 cases.
Guys: let me
start you off with a scenario so that you know what I'm talking
about.
You and your
girlfriend (or just friend who happens to be a girl) want to
hang out one day. The ritualistic "what do you wanna do?
I donno, what do you wanna do" ritual ensues. So the male
in the situation does the smartest thing they can think of: they
start listing off ideas.
Alright, let's
take a second to analyze the situation thus far. The male and female
are confused about what they want to do. Naturally, the guy does
the logical thing and lists possible activities for them. Perhaps
this is the fatal mistake of the man. Lets continue:
"Do
you wanna (insert list of stuff to do here) or (more choices
here)?" The common female answer is something along the
lines of "oh I don't care what we do, I just wanna hang
out - I'm up for whatever."
Guys - I'm here
to tell you - this is where you have to be VERY careful. The trick
here is this: remember that last sentence she said about not caring
what you do? Disregard this sentence entirely. Again, 99 out of
100 girls DO care what you do. They totally have an opinion
of what you'll end up doing. Then why don't they just tell us?
I know that we (meaning us guys) don't care what we do - if we
didn't want to do it, we wouldn't add it to our list of choices
in the first place. My best answer to this question is strangely
ironic: they don't tell us what they really want because
they don't want to be "difficult". And so the vicious
cycle begins:
(While doing
activity X that the guy chose due to the girl's indecisiveness)
The girl says "I don't really want to be here." And
the male responds with a "I thought you wanted to?"
Well, this is
the point where the male starts to feel a little dissappointed
about the whole thing. On occasion, us boys are only out to do
whatever you girls want to do. If you dont TELL us (BEFORE hand),
then we have no way of knowing for goodness' sake! It's ridiculous
and guys don't like it. The generally male population will agree
they've been in this situation, and girls will agree, that, whether
they like to admit it or not, they totally do pull the "indecisive
trick" on us. Did I mention how frustrating it gets? =]
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